Women are taught how to please men and men are taught how to always assume the worst of women. Women are pushed to transform ourselves into the male ideal and punished when we fail to live up to it.
I’m with Andrea Dworkin. People misinterpreted her then and still do. She didn’t believe all Herero sex is rape. She believed men were taught to equate sex with nonconsensual coercive six acts, and women are taught to comply with men.