Um, you’re an idiot. I’m not inherently doing something that causes guys to treat me like shit. I block men, I delete their numbers, I don’t go on a second date. And yet men treat me like shit, casually. The same way men treat every woman like shit. We all have these stories. I can only imagine you never listen to the women in your life, or you’d know this.
There’s a difference between playing the victim and actually being victimized.
Men just never want to recognize that other men might be perpetrators, and women might be victims.