Rivka Wolf·May 4This is why cishet men seem to think talking about sexism makes it worse — because they simply never thought about their sexism at all. They didn’t think it existed. They saw their lives as a collection of unique experiences. When you …Sexist Men Hate Being Observed.1.6K20Lisa MartensTalking about sexism makes sexism worse for them. And they believe they are the only ones who matter.