Please stop blaming yourself for being taken advantage of.

Many men are very skilled at manipulating women into doing their emotional labor. Plenty of men are also perfectly willing to take advantage of a woman they claim to love.

This is exploitation. It is not a situation you agreed to, because no one would ever agree to this. It is a situation he decided on, and you were manipulated into.

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