I think the key for women is not to look for traits we’ve been taught to find attractive, and instead figure out what we personally find genuinely attractive and pursue that.

I think it’s also a good idea to figure out how to communicate to men that we don’t need to be saved and we don’t need a man who obeys patriarchal norms.

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