I think it’s problematic to differentiate these “kinky” behaviors from the broader social context. It is common for particularly sexist men to describe the women they sleep with as “disgusting.” It is common for men to prompt, coerce, or demand that women perform sexual actions that are objectively harmful to us.

These videos are most likely not made for women’s viewing pleasure, and it is unlikely that they are made with the pleasure of the female participants in mind either.

I’m fine with people doing whatever they want in the privacy of their own home. But porn takes place in the inherently coercive context of a capitalist society. And we all ought to make sure we’re acting on

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