I think if you want to manipulate a man into a relationship, then study books that teach women how to do that. If you want a real connection, know yourself and be yourself.

I have found those tips about being high value to be very useful in balancing professional relationships, where the goal is not real connection.

They’re useless when it comes to building real love.

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