I support this, but I also want to point out that many of these categories are the result of traumas or of holding marginalized identities in a society that hates us. People who struggle with boundaries tend to be those whose boundaries have been violated; people who struggle with self esteem tend to be those society teaches are worthless.

It would be great if people’s “abnormal” traumas and pain was held by others, including dates, rather than exploited.

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