I mean..okay but. This is so weird and subjective. Women spend so much time performing attractiveness that half the time we don’t even know what we actually feel. We try so hard to make ourselves available on the off chance some guy might find us attractive. How about encouraging single women to just go do fun s**t because we want to? To get off dating apps, quit wishing we could change places with our friend in the boring relationship going nowhere, and start doing the things we love because we love them?

Why don’t we all just try to be a little more secure and a little less desperate. It would help not to seem desperate if we quit actually being it because we didn’t have actual lives.

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